[slopfix] docs(self-hosting): correct postgres config format and document single vs multi-node nats

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Stack for rivet-dev/rivet

• #5552 [slopfix] fix(universaldb): match fdb conflict semantics in …
• #5551 [slopfix] fix(universaldb,util,pegboard-envoy): index dedup …
• #5398 feat(kitchen-sink): add churnDb actor and seed driver for co …
• #5397 chore: Clean up
• #5382 [slopfix] docs(self-hosting): correct postgres config format … 👈
• #5356 [slopfix] fix(pegboard): decrement kv_storage_used metric on …
• #5354 [slopfix] refactor(universaldb,ups): single/multi-node udb o …
• #5353 [slopfix] perf(universaldb): fold postgres drain_batch into …
• #5342 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8-high)] perf(universaldb): batch leader …
• #5341 [slopfix] docs(self-hosting): promote postgres from experime …
• #5340 [slopfix] fix(self-host): repair dev compose generation, kit …
• #5337 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8-high)] feat(universaldb): graceful pos …
• #5336 [slopfix] test(universaldb): postgres leader failover + abor …
• #5335 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8-high)] feat(ups): table-backed postgre …
• #5329 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8-high)] feat(universaldb): postgres lea …
• #5327 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8)] feat(pegboard-envoy): rate-limit env …
• #5326 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8)] feat(util): add rate limiter primiti …
• #5322 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8)] feat(rivetkit-core): add serde durat …
• #5321 Add observation for serde_bare
• #5320 Add observation and ser/de metrics for serde calls
• #5314 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8-medium)] chore: add profiling cargo pr …
• #5306 [SLOP(claude-opus-4-8)] fix(kitchen-sink): serve built front …
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