docs: add comprehensive contributing guide

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Description

Please include a summary of the change and which issue is fixed. Please also include relevant motivation and context.

Fixes # (issue)

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Docs update

How Has This Been Tested?

Please describe the tests that you ran to verify your changes.

• python tooling/validator/validate.py ...
• Validated against existing examples

Checklist:

• My code follows the style guidelines of this project
• I have performed a self-review of my own code
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes