2025 - fixes windows connection issues

This project hasn't been updated in 4 years so I wanted to clean it up a bit and fix some of the connection issues. We're now using a modern version of Go 1.23.7 along with some updated dependencies. Hopefully this helps with overall stability and lowers memory usage even further.

For what it's worth this also seems to fix the not connecting after sleep issue I've had and have seen other people complain about.

I've also added a bunch of error handling to give a better sense of what's going on.
Run deej-debug.exe to view the logs in real-time and discover what's going on.