bump agp to 9.2.1 and ndk to r28c

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Motivation (required)

for react-native ndk r28c bump react/react-native#58650. we should also align the dependencies for the libraries

Changes

• bump agp to 9.2.1
• ./gradlew wrapper --gradle-version 9.4.1 --distribution-type bin because agp 9 requires newer gradle wrapper
• bump ndk to r28c
• remove apply plugin: 'kotlin-android' because agp 9 has builtin kotlin support
• kapt to legacy-kapt
• some dependencies updates because of android.dependency.useConstraints is false since agp 9

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test aar build passed and verify the *.so is built by ndk r28c

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@cortinico merged this pull request in d74afa8.