fix(domain): route emitter errors through domains

[andrewtdiz]

Fixes #4395.

Summary

• give optimized perry-ext-events EventEmitter handles a local registry with GC scanning and runtime registration hooks
• expose domain get/set hooks through the runtime class handle registry so domain.add/remove(emitter) works for optimized EventEmitter handles in auto and full-stdlib builds
• route unhandled error emits through the owning domain after releasing emitter borrows, matching Node's emit("error") return shape
• decode module-level node:events helper targets from the NaN-boxed ABI used by codegen
• localize Rust allocator globals in well-known wrapper archives so wrapper staticlibs cannot override the runtime allocator during links

Validation

• cargo check -p perry-ext-events
• cargo test -p perry strip_dedup -- --nocapture
• cargo check -p perry
• cargo build -p perry --release
• cargo build -p perry-ext-events --release
• PERRY_NO_AUTO_OPTIMIZE=1 PERRY_NO_CACHE=1 PERRY_ALLOW_UNIMPLEMENTED=1 target/release/perry test-parity/node-suite/events/imports/named-imports.ts -o /tmp/perry_events_named_imports && /tmp/perry_events_named_imports
• PATH=/root/.npm/_npx/bac97da9607b7ef2/node_modules/node/bin:$PATH PERRY_NO_AUTO_OPTIMIZE=1 PERRY_NO_CACHE=1 ./run_parity_tests.sh --suite node-suite --module events --filter imports (PASS 3, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260604_132124.json)
• PATH=/root/.npm/_npx/bac97da9607b7ef2/node_modules/node/bin:$PATH PERRY_NO_AUTO_OPTIMIZE=1 PERRY_NO_CACHE=1 ./run_parity_tests.sh --suite node-suite --module domain --filter members-emitter-errors (PASS 1, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260604_132243.json)

Note: the broader events --filter emitter run still has unrelated parity gaps in capture-rejections, emit-multiple-args, event-names-symbols, and instanceof; the focused domain regression and events import fixtures pass.