feat(thead): support FlashAttention on PPU

[spike-zhu]

Summary

• support flash-attn in thead ppu

Motivation

Closes #

Type of Change

• feat — new feature / new operator / new platform
• fix — bug fix
• perf — performance improvement (no behavioral change)
• refactor — code restructuring without behavior change
• test — adding or fixing tests only
• docs — documentation only
• build / ci — build system or CI configuration
• chore — tooling, formatting, or other non-code changes
• Breaking change (requires a ! in the Conventional Commits prefix or a BREAKING CHANGE: footer)

Platforms Affected

• CPU (WITH_CPU)
• NVIDIA (WITH_NVIDIA)
• Iluvatar (WITH_ILUVATAR)
• MetaX (WITH_METAX)
• Cambricon (WITH_CAMBRICON)
• Moore (WITH_MOORE)
• Ascend (WITH_ASCEND)
• T-Head (WITH_THEAD)
• PyTorch C++ bindings (WITH_TORCH)
• Build system / CMake / CI
• Python bindings / user-facing API

Smoke Test Result

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Test Results on Supported Platforms

Platform	Affected	Build / Smoke Result	Full Result / Notes
NVIDIA
Iluvatar
MetaX
Cambricon
Moore
Ascend

Full `pytest` output (optional)

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Benchmark / Performance Impact

Notes for Reviewers

9g8b and 9g70b test result：